First, I want to answer a question I often get: “What is a Motherhood Story?” It has two meanings in the world of Beth Rivelli Coaching:

1. If you are a woman who still has hope of having children, it refers to creating your vision for Motherhood. I like to say that nothing we say or do guarantees Motherhood; being intentional raises our chances. Writing your motherhood story is the first step in being intentional. It is your unique future-based vision of what you want to create

2. Whether you are a woman who still has hope of having children OR a woman who is childless not by choice, it’s the story you’ve always had about being a Mom, your default beliefs, the default meanings you’ve assigned to the experience.I believe that being intentional raises our chances of creating the thing we want and I am applying that concept to Motherhood. It’s just not something we were ever taught to do. It sounds so simple and it is in theory. Yet since this is a sensitive topic, it has so many associated feelings, thoughts and body sensations.

Maybe you’re the person who already knows motherhood isn’t going to happen. That is my story too and I’m here to support and walk with you through the grief.

Whatever your circumstance, this part of your life feels hopeless and stuck now. As a motherhood story coach, I work with you to figure out what is next, to gain more inner peace around this topic, to move toward a place of transformation, and feel like a whole human being.

Together, we partner to access the brilliance, power, and wisdom you already hold. Because YOU DO! We work to develop the tools to find those things within your whole, beautiful self and support you in creating that life you envision.

I AM NOT A…

• Guru or expert intending to give you all of the “right” answers. Because there are none.
• Therapist who is looking for things in your past that eventually brought you here. That is a conversation for your therapist. I am a big believer.
• Pronatalist who believes that a woman’s value is defined through the lens of motherhood.

I AM A Coach who wants to support women in creating a big, beautiful life they are excited to live. Kids may be a part of that vision, they may not. Either way, your life is not over and there is so much available to you, maybe even more than you currently imagine.

Is this you?

When you were younger, you expected that by your current age you would have had the kid thing figured out. But instead of following your list of carefully crafted checkpoints and milestones, life tore up your checklist and threw a completely different set of circumstances and feelings at you, and everything now feels wobbly or like it’s been turned upside down.

You may be feeling angry at the world, at your body, or at the people you’re in a relationship with. You may doubt whether you’re doing anything right. You may even feel completely worthless, broken, defeated or incomplete sometimes.

The good news is that there is NOTHING wrong with you. And your life is not over.